I'm thinking that part of it is that CGI emphasizes movement when they want to convey impact. Even something simple as a car hitting something, they make the car do a little bounce in the back, the whole body of it denting, little nuts and bolts flying off, and dust and smoke whirling around it. It's very influenced by animation, which has to do those things to contrast with the usually static background.
But I rewatched Jackie Chan's Police Story for the whatever-th time a couple of months ago. There's a pile-up scene in it where several dozen cars just comically keep ramming into a car mountain, and it struck me how real cars just stop dead on impact. Even when they fly into the air, when they hit the ground it just plops down rather than doing twirls.