This is true. I don't normally wear ties with patterned shirts at all. A few of my patterned shirts look OK with ties.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sycophant
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This is true. I don't normally wear ties with patterned shirts at all. A few of my patterned shirts look OK with ties.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sycophant
Nothing wrong with the pattern, and the fabric looks really soft. It just wouldn't go with a tie.
I know, right?Quote:
Originally Posted by Mara
http://igossip.com/celebs/Moby.jpg
Going back to the old school....
D_Davis
One thing I like about "D_Davis" is that it contains a wacky looking emoticon.
It's true.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sycophant
D_D
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My favorite rapper.
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He's got red on him.
D, I think you look great in that pic.
You pull off the look well. It looks natural on you.
Thanks, meg. :)
It only took me about 30 years to be comfortable and like the way I look.
:D
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Originally Posted by D_Davis
Believe me, I'm still not there.
I'm still greatly unnerved when people give me compliments on my appearance. I feel like they're just pulling my leg.
I'm very uncomfortable with it as well. I have been accused of being downright rude when someone is trying to compliment me.Quote:
Originally Posted by megladon8
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Originally Posted by Mara
This is embarassing, but I have deeply angered some people this way.
They tell me that "oh Braden, _____ looks great on you!" or "you look so good in this photo" or whatever, and I just cannot accept it.
To me, they HAVE to be joking, patronizing me. It just doesn't make sense to me.
I look in the mirror and see nothing worth liking, as sad as that is to say.
It's not that there's nothing about my appearance I like, and if I'm complimented on something specific, I can usually handle it, especially if I agree that it's a nicer part. (Like my eyes, or hair. Or boobs.) But if someone just blanket calls me beautiful or pretty, I think they're being disingenuous.
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Originally Posted by Mara
Settle this for me.
Are women insulted when they're complimented on their boobs, or not? Or does it differ with different women?
I've always hated that mind game where a woman will wear an incredibly low cut top, and either a) a push up bra, or b) no bra, and then scoff and act disgusted when guys look.
Like...aren't you wearing that because you want the attention???
Whenever I go to the mall with a cucumber in my underwear, I'm not doing it because I like the feel of it.
I personally like the attention. I don't get insulted, unless it's taken as an invitation to "grab". That I don't like.Quote:
Originally Posted by megladon8
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Originally Posted by Philosophe_rouge
Also I guess it's a given that there's a difference between glancing, and full out STARING.
The latter would be a bit creepy.
But I think if you choose to wear something that puts your boobs in my face, you shouldn't act surprised when I look at them.
A true gentleman always asks first.Quote:
Originally Posted by Philosophe_rouge
Agreed. Hands off the junk ladies.Quote:
Originally Posted by Philosophe_rouge
I would be uncomfortable if a man who was not my boyfriend/husband complimented my boobs. But I don't wear low-cut stuff. And glancing is different from staring which is different from remarking.Quote:
Originally Posted by megladon8
I'm fine with female friends and relatives complimenting my boobs, though. Which they seem to do a lot... which suddenly seems kind of strange. Oddly enough, my doctors also compliment my boobs. Like, every doctor I've had since I was a teenager. I have no idea if that's unsual or not.
My least favorite roommate EVER was both stacked and overweight, like me. One night a bunch of us were going to dinner and she put on, essentially, a camisole with no bra, and she was bustin' out all over. She looked ridiculous, and I told her so. (We didn't get along.) She got snippy with me and we went out.Quote:
Like...aren't you wearing that because you want the attention???
At dinner, a group of guys in the next booth were snickering, and one reached a cell phone over and snapped a picture of her cleavage. She turned red and hissed, "We are leaving. NOW." And I was like, "You know what? You can go wait in the car, Tits Magee. I'm hungry." She was so pissed at me.
I completely agree with "hands off"...but really, I don't think that's a revelation. If you grab a woman's breasts, that's sexual assault.
Though I do agree with the comedian Ron White.
Boobs are a funny thing. Once you see one pair....you wanna see the rest of 'em.
The only two men who have ever touched my breasts both did so without permission, and both of them were my friends' boyfriends. The first was when I was about seventeen and I thought he didn't notice that he was cupping my boob so I ignored it. (I was so innocent!) The second guy was just a couple of years ago and although I was shocked and tried to pretend it hadn't happened, it only took me a few minutes to get seriously pissed off.Quote:
Originally Posted by megladon8
But "grabbing" might be the wrong word there. It didn't hurt. It was just unwelcome touching.
I know a lot of girls see being asked to flash their boobs as being as invasive, offensive and predatory as sexual assault (ie grabbing or fondling without permission).
I just think it's idiotic. What could possibly be the rate of positive returns on "SHOW US YER BOOBS?"Quote:
Originally Posted by megladon8
But, then again, I don't drink. Maybe that's how kids say hello these days.