I disagree. After a lazy weekend, I'm eager to get things done at work.
But days like yesterday, you just want to keep going for 3 more days.
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I disagree. After a lazy weekend, I'm eager to get things done at work.
But days like yesterday, you just want to keep going for 3 more days.
One of my pet peeves is people who base their mood on what day of the week it is.
"How are you doing?"
"Ugh...it's Monday....ugh."
"How are you doing?"
"Well, it's Tuesday, so better than yesterday!"
"How are you doing?"
"Hump-day! Half-way done!"
"How are you doing?"
"Tomorrow is FRIDAY!"
"How are you doing?"
"Great, it's Friday! FINALLY!"
It just seems weird to me that so many people I know are in terrible moods and bummed out for half of the days they are alive.
My advice for them - try to do something fun for yourself every single day. Even something simple, like taking two hot showers in a day just because you can, or eating something tasty.
I'm very guilty of that.
I like my job, so I don't really get the Monday bum-outs.
Plus, my days off are quite erratic, so I may very well be off on Monday and therefore have no problem with it. Like today.
I would say that if you hate your job so much that a simple work day totally bums you out, you should probably find another job, or think of a way to not be bummed out.
I like my job quite a bit.
I don't miss having jobs where my days off were erratic. I like having two days in a row off, or else I don't relax properly.
I would love to have Sunday and Monday off, though, so I could get my doctor's appointments, etc. done with on a weekday.
Not everyone who says these things is being entirely sincere. I generally find myself happier as I get closer to the weekend because I love doing nothing of any importance and work gets in the way and the weekend typically does not (though I have been busy on the weekends recently). That doesn't mean I just mope for 16 hours on Monday.
Right. You have no control over what day of the week it is, or what the weather is, so no since in complaining.
True, but I am a firm believer that words can lead to actions and influence moods.Quote:
Not everyone who says these things is being entirely sincere. I generally find myself happier as I get closer to the weekend because I love doing nothing of any importance and work gets in the way and the weekend typically does not (though I have been busy on the weekends recently). That doesn't mean I just mope for 16 hours on Monday.
Spinal, do you find it similarly annoying if someone overreacts in a positive manner to the weather?
"It's sunny and BEAUTIFUL out! This is the kind of day that makes me cherish life, where I feel at one with Mother Creation! I love every single one of her creatures on this day! Don't you just want to lie down on your stomach and HUG the earth on a day like this?"
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"Camelot!"
"Camelot!"
"CAMELOT!"
"psst...it's just a model..."
I can't agree with the apparent logic here.
(I do think it's a good idea not to be excessively negative, but complaining is often cathartic, especially when you can share your complaint with another. And I would expect most people primarily complain about things they don't have control over.)
Considering that many people suffer from seasonal affective disorders I don't see why it's so contemptible for people to have emotional responses to the weather.
If I'm talking about the days of the week or the weather, it's because I'm trying my hardest to avoid uncomfortable silence in an elevator or hallway with someone I have nothing in common with. The conversations don't really reflect how those things actually impact my life. As tactics, they place second and third behind pretending to read a text message on my phone.